Thanks milly, I think you're so right about being put off *creating for* people who are requesting a certain sex scene configuration. I am definitely not going there or doing that. Because it is stifling to one's creativity, you're so right. It's one thing if you're writing for a gift fic situation with certain requests, and gosh that's hard sometimes isn't it? Every story is different, most of the time it's not even a conscious decision, it's just naturally flows from how I'm writing the characters.